Tag: FMF
#FMF WELL
Five Minute Friday is sponsored by Kate. Every Friday writers get together and write with the word provided for 5 minutes and then post and share. You can find other posts like this here.
I am a well read woman. Some people would say this is dangerous.
I am a person who cares about my well being and the well being of the loved ones around me.
I like a well cooked meal, but not a well done steak.
Filling the creative well is important to me and I am always seeking ways to do this action. Reading is partly how I do this. Also writing is a way I do this. Having life giving conversations is another way I believe to fill the well.
“Well, well, well” makes me think of someone who is judgmental.
The idea of Welsch rabbit comes to mind which is not rabbit at all but a fancy grilled cheese. I learned this a few weeks ago when I looked it up for a story I was writing.
Well, I guess that is the end of my five minutes today!
#FMF NAME
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#FMF Culture
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#FMF Promise
It’s time for the FMF weekly writing prompt blog link-up. Writers across the world get together, set a timer for 5 minutes and write to the prompt.
This week’s writing prompt from Kate is : PROMISE
A promise is a contract. I typically uphold promises with other people better than I do with myself. I need to exercise a bit more grace with myself I think.
Promises can be large or small.
I promise myself that I will not get defensive when someone hurts my feelings. Then I do it anyway. I need to forgive.
There is promise I see in my students. Such great potential!
Marriage is a promise of being there, of loving me when I am unlovable, of staying when it gets hard. It is the promise to take care of my needs and I will take care of yours.
Friendship is a promise too. I suppose all relationships are.
I have a promise to my children to teach them, and love them so they become members of society that have purpose and emit love and light.
I have promised myself I will write 31 stories this month as part of the storyaday.org challenge. So far, so good. It is day 17 and I am cruising along.
#FMF Touch
Every Friday I participate in the Five Minute Friday challenge where I write for 5 minutes using the one word prompt. You can find the linkup to other posts like this one here.
Set the timer for 5 minutes…and….GO!
There are things in this world that touch my heart and give me hope. Usually it is embedded in the words or actions of a child. There is also physical touch that I find comforting usually in the form of hugs.
I always feel better, especially when I am truly connected to someone, when they touch me. It is the casual touch as you pass each other in the kitchen or the hallway. The kisses and hugs goodbye or hello. These moments of affection matter. They keep me grounded and comforted.
Otherwise, I am not a touchy person. I do not trust too many people and find their actions suspicious if it is out of the ordinary. This goes for touches and questions!
I am more of a creature of pattern than I realize sometimes or would like to admit.
Words touch me. The phrasing of something new or words that appear before me that suddenly bring a feeling to the page touches my heart and can make me cry. So can the drive of an athlete accomplishing a goal. Watch the finish line footage of the Ironman or a marathon and you will see what I mean.
True connection and deep conversation touches me in a unique way. I try to appreciate it in the moment and also in the waves of time that comes after.
#FMF Next
I participate in Five Minute Friday. Set the timer for 5 minutes and freewrite with the word provided. Find the link up here.
Set the timer and GO!
As I read the information about the prompt this week on the site I immediately thought of my work with Emily P. Freeman’s book The Next Right Thing. If you follow my blog, you know I love this book and have been reflecting through it since the beginning of the month. Each chapter is highlight by Emily on Instagram.
The idea of #mynextrightthing has been on my mind for quite awhile. It is a decision making process that makes sense especially in the sense of overwhelm. I can figure out what to do next, even if it is little like take a shower, or make a sandwich, or breath. I have been through trauma that had me feeling like I was trying to make it through the minute, not the day. I don’t remember exactly when I found the podcast The Next Right Thing but I know that it spoke to me. Emily’s voice is amazing if you haven’t listened to her either. I am thankful Emily is in my life this way.
There are lots of circumstances in this world that do not make sense to me. I used to be able to make a decision pretty quickly. This was at a time where my perception was that “Everything was gonna work out.” I have made some decisions which led to more obstacles as time went on and now I second guess as to if I will make the wrong decision. I have people relying on me and cannot afford to make any more mistakes than I have to. I will continue to make mistakes but try to be as informed as possible!
My next right thing right now is to keep writing. I will interact with my writing people this morning and my family this afternoon. Another next thing is to be open to opportunities and appreciate the moments I am in. The amount of next right things I get to choose are not guaranteed.
If you have not read Emily’s book I urge you to get a copy. It will be given as a gift from me several times this year! You can find it here.
#FMF LACK
Every Friday I participate in the FiveOnFriday challenge. You can link here.
I set the timer for 5 minutes and write:
What do I lack? Currently, I feel I lack peace and direction, but I am working on it. I am so reflective that I always know where I am emotionally lacking I just don’t always know how to fix it so I put my head down and focus on the task or obsession that I am engaged in at the moment. Now it is writing. I want to be the best I can be. I read about it. I do it . I try to find mentors to help me IRL or in the pages of books and blogs. I have my Emily P Freeman book about decision making which is helping tremendously.
I do lack directions of what I want to do. The amount of obstacles and out of nowhere hits have been I want to be at home. I want to write all the time. I know it is not a bad thing for a writer to have a day job. I like most of the people I work with and I do like the work that is required in my actual job description. I am reframing it at the moment to get more out of it personally as well. It works for the job aspect but is more fulfilling. I am coaching myself and streamlining my processes to be more consistent and that helps everyone.
I do not lack in love. The relationship I have with my husband is awesome and as perfect as it can be. It really is fairy tale like.
The relationships I have with all my children are unique to them and I love them dearly and would do anything for any of the 4.
The friendships I have IRL and online are strong. I nurture the ones that are mutually life giving and make me happy. I am looking forward to storyaday May next month when there is group writing every day and there is daily interaction with other writers. THAT makes me giddy.
Happy Writing Everyone!
#FMF Offer
I participate in Five Minute Friday. Set the timer for 5 minutes and freewrite with the word provided. Find the link up here.
Set the timer and GO!
I offer myself to the world and subject myself to rejection or acceptance.
I offer my writing to publishers.
I offer my writing to my blog readers.
I offer my writing to other readers and critique partners.
I offer bids to people to connect with them. (If you don’t know what I am referring to here is an article)
I offer extensions of friendship.
I offer words to the world and some are rehearsed and some are not.
I offer honest feedback and advice to my friends and coworkers when they ask for it.
I have learned to protect myself as I often do not think as others do. I am “no nonsense” as a colleague put it. I would rather be respected than liked – 360 days out of the year that is.
I recognize people do things different ways and that is ok. I just don’t want them to try to impose their thinking on me if we aren’t friends or I didn’t ask. I do not ask questions I do not want the answers to.
I offer my true self to people…sometimes.
#FMF Measure
I participate in Five Minute Friday. Set the timer for 5 minutes and freewrite with the word provided. Find the link up here.
Set the timer and GO!
I am measure against other people all the time externally. This past 2 weeks I have been struggling to get anything more published. I am measured against the other submissions that are coming in. There are criteria I am up against as well I am aware of but it doesn’t always take the sting out of the rejection. Gladly, many of the letters came with a little feedback which was encouraging.
Many times in my life I have been in competition with people – sometimes only on their side. Now I mostly measure myself with my own set of agreements – not anyone else’s.
I measure what kind of writer I am by the fact that I write every day. It is not measured by how much I publish or don’t. I am in a community of writers. There are outside measures like critiques, evaluations, and feedback but I don’t always take them to heart.
I am a coach and a teacher which have its own measures and criteria by definition. I guess I measure myself by labels. There are sets of critical attributes of what I believe are the fundamentals of what each of those labels entails. There are also universal attributes for these labels as well.
How do I measure success? In the ACTION. The doing is more impressive to me than the reward or sometimes even the outcome. That is a measure from the outside and a factor I cannot often control.
“What can I control?” has become a mantra for me when in a situation with obstacles. It makes a huge difference to my mindset. I cannot control others – that I know for sure.
